I’m pretty sure this is a question we all women have been asked before, and I’m pretty sure we all have said , maybe two, maybe more, and of course the honest “I don't know!!
I remember growing up not wanting to have kids, my life was all about my personal growth and all the fun, all the places I was going to travel and party at and of course all the glam and fashion! Then , it happened! I got pregnant with my first son and all that just stopped.
It was such a big change, everything I wanted and dreamed of just changed and for so long I was so confused about what is was feeling and who I was and who I wanted to be.
After having my first son I learned that, you can plan but those plans are always going to change, I learned that my level of patience needed to grow and I also learned that happiness was my everyday feeling.
For so long this boy was the owner of my complete love and devotion, and years later , I had my second boy, and let me tell you it was big! I never thought I could love someone else the way I love my first baby, but for some reason my heart just exploded with love for this second baby!! It was the same amount, the same happiness, the same love but in a different way!
Now that he’s almost 2 years old, I’ve been wondering if I want another baby, because you know, there’s always that little question haunting you, the “do I want another baby”, “I only have boys, do I need a girl”, ”do I want a little sassy mini me running around“, etc, etc...
Well, the answer is still, “I don’t know”.
I’m guessing that while the days pass, and depending on how my husband and I will feel later, we could say “yes“ or ”no” but for now that’s still our answer.
So to all my mamas or no mamas (yet) out there.. how many kids would you like to have? How many boys, how many girls?
Do you wanna be a boy mama or a girl mama?
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